TEN YEAR ANNIVERSARY

TEN YEAR ANNIVERSARY

It is a week until Christmas here in picturesque New England. And it is raining … coming down buckets of cats and dogs. At the same time Old Man Winter is blasting the sodden landscape with fierce winds and erasing the little bit of snow cover we have had for a while. It really is very un-Christmassy out there. Added to this I have had a bad cold for the last week, and have had to cancel all my pre-holiday plans, including my annual Christmas tree party which had been scheduled for this evening. Such a bummer. My tree and I are all dressed up with nowhere to go.

However, this morning while stretched out in my big chair, honking and coughing and sniffing and blowing, I realized I am, in a way, celebrating the Tenth Anniversary of my first cancer procedure. Ten years ago, the week after Thanksgiving a biopsy had confirmed my bladder cancer, and a couple of weeks later they went in to see how bad it was. So ironically, ten years ago at this time I was stretched out in my big chair, wiped out from the anesthetic and recovering from my first hospital procedure. I can’t recall if it was raining back then, but I wouldn’t be surprised. The aftermath of the diagnosis and following treatment puts the inconvenience of my common cold symptoms into perspective. Big whoop!

But I do wish my voice had not fallen victim to my cold and sore throat, I really miss it.

17 Replies to “TEN YEAR ANNIVERSARY”

  1. Wow, Connie, 10 years! Some days does it feel like yesterday and other days feel like longer? Time is weird that way. I am so glad that you’ve come out the other end. Cheers and despite your miserable cold, a big toast to life! L’chaim!

    1. For sure it feels as if it has been a lifetime. And then it feels like yesterday. Thanks for the toast. ❣️

    2. Thanks for the toast, Mindy❣️
      Time is definitely odd. Today is a blip and ten years at the same time

  2. Ten years ago we were mourning the first Christmas without Rick. That year was the hell of cancer. Much has happened since then. Life’s knuckleballs. Now I look in the mirror, and once I get over the shock I realize, wow, I’ve reached old age and I’m still going! Merry Christmas, eh! Thinking about Nancy. Send me an email with a Paterson update. Miss you all!! Holiday greetings from India

  3. Congratulations on 10 years well lived. You’ve done them with grace and courage. May you heal soon and enjoy Christmas. There are always good shows to binge. Warm hugs!

    1. It turns out, feeling punk and croaky is a relaxing way to sail through the holiday season. And a good excuse to ignore vegetables.

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